11 Best Sex Toys For Couples In 2025 Tested By Sex Experts

The 11 best sex toys for couples in 2025, tested and reviewed by sex experts, include wearable and unobtrusive vibrators, cock rings, and toys for anal play.
Plus, how using a toy together can enhance intimacy.
By Lindsay Geller and Lydia WangUpdated: Apr 03, 2025 3:27 PM EDT View Products
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Read moreBeyond bolstering emotional intimacy, “toys are a great asset to increase arousal,” says Jenni Skyler, PhD, a certified sex therapist based in Colorado. Using a sex toy can also help heterosexual couples close the orgasm gap, adds Deindorfer, which is the term used to describe the difference in frequency of orgasm when women and men have sex. Considering many vulva owners need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, bringing in a toy that does just that (and more!) can help ensure couples have a mutually satisfying sexperience. Of course, there are many toys designed specifically for same-sex couples’ pleasure as well, like a double-ended strap-on dildo.
What to consider
Desires
Before you start shopping, have a candid convo with your partner, says Lisa Finn, a sex educator and marketing director for online sex toy retailers Babeland and Good Vibes. Talk about what you both enjoy in the bedroom and the types of stimulation you’re interested in, whether it’s rumbly or buzzy vibrations, BDSM sensations, or something else. “It’s important to consider both partners’ desired types of pleasure, boundaries, and body types, and to explore various types of toys, including clitoral, internal, and strap-on options,” adds Rhiannon John, a sexologist and senior health educator at Public Health Solutions.
Material
No matter what type of toy you’re buying, make sure it’s made from body-safe, non-porous materials. (Porous materials can hold germs and bacteria, which can lead to infection, even if you clean your toys regularly.) Medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, stainless steel, Pyrex, and ABS plastic (for non-insertable toys) are all safe to use, sex therapist Rachel Wright, LMFT, previously told Women’s Health.
Anatomy
To get the most bang for your buck, it’s best to consider each partner’s anatomy and start with a toy that everyone can use. If you want a remote-controlled toy that both partners can wear, but one person has a vulva and the other has a penis, try a vibrating butt plug or cock ring because they have versatility, for example.
How we chose
For the past few years, Women’s Health editors and contributors have been extensively testing more than 60 of the bestselling, most popular, and top-rated sex toys for couples, including vibrators, cock rings, and strap-on sets. We assessed products based on their material, number of settings and speeds, and ultimately, whether they enhanced the partnered sex experience, as opposed to making it more uncomfortable or awkward. Our team also consulted sex experts Johanna Rief, Jenni Skyler, PhD, Hannah Deindorfer, Liz Klinger, Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, Lisa Finn, Deborah Kagan,Dr. Karen Toubi, and Rhiannon John for the story.
Ready to add a plus one to your pleasure party? Here are the 11 best sex toys for couples in 2025, according to sex experts.
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Very quiet and unobtrusive during penetration
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Gentle vibrations
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Can be tricky to use the first time
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Versatile shape can be used in multiple ways
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Easy to use both alone and with a partner
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Some may want more vibration options
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Long handle makes it easy to position between bodies during sex
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Doesn’t need to be held in a specific spot to be effective
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Not waterproof or splashproof
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Compact size is unobtrusive during partnered sex
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Ergonomic design fits between bodies easily
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Only offers buzzy vibrations, which some may not like
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Flexible silicone easily adjusts to reach your G-Spot
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Unlike most other G-spot vibrators on the market
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May not be useful if neither partner has a vulva
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Ergonomic shape is unobtrusive and can be used hands-free
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Offers a different sensation than typical bullet vibrators
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A little hard to turn on and off
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Easy to use in multiple sex positions
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More affordable than other vibrators
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Battery life is shorter compared to other toys
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Gives pleasure to both partners
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Delivers strong vibrations
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Band can feel loose
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Features two motors
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Six vibrations settings
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Wireless remote can’t be used from far away
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Whisper-quiet
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App and remote-controlled
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Vibrating ring is tight
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Designed for both vaginal and anal penetration
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Comes with an optional harness
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Vibrations can be overpowering
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