The 6 Sex Toys and Pleasure Accessories Every Couple Needs
Last year, while on a sister trip to Paris, my sister and I found ourselves gagging at what we found in the local sex shops after watching a midnight show at the Moulin Rouge. I was amazed at the number of options available. One of the stores we went in was the size of a department store - think Mac… Brenda Alexander 03 November 2018
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Tayler Barakat London Alexaundria xoStaff Shellie R. Warren PCC Tayler Barakat Diamond Jeune Shellie R. Warren PCC Shellie R. Warren PCC Shellie R. Warren PCC Janell Hazelwood Jul 08, 2025 11:00 AM ESTMuch of the conversation centered around purpose, sacrifice, and listening to life’s subtle signals. “I think that you really have to pay attention to the signs of life,” Marcel said. “Because as much as we need to make money, we are not necessarily on this Earth for that sole purpose, you know what I mean?” While he acknowledged his ambitions, adding, “that is not me saying at all I’m not trying to ball out,” he emphasized that fulfillment goes deeper.
“We are here to be happy. We are here to fulfill a purpose that we are put on here for.” Adrian spoke candidly about the tension between passion and survival, describing how hardship can sometimes point us away from misaligned paths. “If you find it’s constantly hurting you… that’s telling you something. That’s telling you that you’re going outside of your purpose.”
Marcel’s path hasn’t been without detours. A promising athlete in his youth, he recalled, “Early on in my career, I was still doing sports… I was good… I had a scholarship.” An injury changed everything. “My femur broke. Hence why I always say, you know, I’m gonna keep you hip like a femur.” After the injury, he pivoted to explore other careers, including teaching and corporate jobs.
“It just did not get me—even with any success that happened in anything—those times, back then, I was so unhappy. And you know, to a different degree. Like not just like, ‘I really want to be a singer so that’s why I’m unhappy.’ Nah, it was like, it was not fulfilling me in any form or fashion.”
He recalled performing old-school songs at age 12 to impress girls, then his father challenged him: “You can lie to these girls all you want, but you’re really just lying to yourself. You ain’t growing.” That push led him to the piano—and eventually, to his truth. “Music is my love,” Marcel affirmed. “I wouldn’t be a happy husband if I was here trying to do anything else just to appease her his wife.”
xoStaff Jul 10, 2025 07:00 AM EST"I’ve never said that this career was tough. I’ve never said it was difficult. I’ve never said it was hard," Colman said. “Other people would say that—‘oh, you’re in a very difficult industry. It’s very hard to get work and book work.’ I’m like, I’ve never believed that.”
Instead of allowing himself to be defined by other people’s projections about their perceptions of what the industry is or was, Colman dared to believe differently even if his reality was playing catch up with his dreams:
“Like Maya Angelou said words are things. And if you believe that, then that’s actually what it is. Actually I’ve just never believed it. Someone told me some years ago, they said, ‘I remember you were, you’re a struggling actor.’ I’m like, ‘I don’t.’”
He continued:
Even when I was bartending and hustling and not having opportunities or anything, I never believed that I was struggling because I wasn’t attached to a struggle. I was attached to living and creating and being curious. “I tell young people that. To remember the words that you say about yourself and your career are true. So, I choose to make it full of light and love and it’s interesting and every day I’m going to learn something new even if it looks like I don’t have what I want but it’s important to be in the moment… you really build on the moments moment to moment.
“And you’re looking back at your career as I’ve been in it for what 33 years and you’re like, ‘Wow, that’s what I’ve been doing.’ And I’ve stayed strong to that so I think that is truly my advice.”
Let this be your sign to give your path a reframe. When the path you’re on feels uncertain, the journey is still unfolding. Like Colman said: “I wasn’t attached to a struggle. I was attached to living.”
That’s a Black king right there.
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